It’s OKAY to be YOU!!
17th January, 2010 - Posted by Kimberly Guthrie - No Comments
It’s so easy to compare ourselves to everyone else. How often do we hear how someone else is doing something and we think we should be doing it that way too. I was talking to a friend today who was sharing her journey treating her children’s issues naturally through diet. As we were talking she told me about someone telling her that if she did “A” that there wasn’t any point in doing “B”. I realized it is so easy to think there is only one way to do something. For some of us it’s our way for other’s it’s everyone else’s way. The truth is none of our journey’s will look the same. While I know that if I let my daughter cheat on her diet occasionally we can manage, I also know that too many cheats will hurt us all! I have to figure out what we can live with. Someone else may not be able or willing to suffer the consequences of a cheat on their child’s diet. The only question you have to answer is what works for YOU?
It’s okay to be you! It’s okay for your walk to look different from mine. We have to learn to walk out our own journey. We have to structure our lives in a manner that allows us to succeed. This is our life and we have to LIVE it! Life is about balance. I can’t tell you what balance looks like for your life but you can figure it out as you go. So the next time a well meaning person advises you to do things their way pause and think about it. Pray and ask God if there is anything in it for you. While you want to remain teachable and open to learning new things you don’t want to be guilt-ed into doing something that doesn’t work for you. If you don’t feel that it is something that will work for family then toss it out with no guilt!!
Remember God made you the way you are to fulfill His purpose on this earth. No one else can do what you do because you were hand picked for the job you have!!
Enjoy the Journey!
Blessings from My heart to Yours,
Kimberly
Tags: ADD, ADHD, advice, Balance, compare, Diet, encouragement, friend, it's okay to be you, Journey, life, living, living life your way, ourselves, unasked for advice
Posted on: January 17, 2010
Filed under: Encouragement from the Trenches
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